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生活中的5个球
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, ~! m5 `- s8 t; R5 z" J) W, ]可口可乐总裁 Brian G. Dyson
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设想生活是一场游戏,你正试图把玩5个抛向空中的球。这5个球是工作、家庭、健康、朋友、心灵。( _. |4 @+ o8 w
5 d5 L; O/ K/ y h6 P; [你很快就会明白,工作是一个橡皮球。如果,不小心掉下,它还会弹回来。但其他四个球—家庭、健康、朋友和心灵却是玻璃做成的。如果,你不小心,掉下其中的任何一个,它们就会不可弥补地被刻上斑痕、留下缺口、被损坏、甚至破碎。它们绝不会完好如初。
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你必须明白这一点,从而努力平衡你的生活。
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怎样才能做好?
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1. 不要总是跟别人去比而低估你自己的价值。人与人是不同的,每个人都有自己的特色。
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6 G9 T9 ^' v7 c \5 t7 p0 [2 k" u* P2. 不要基于别人的择重去设定你的目标,只有你自己才知道什么最适合你。" }+ d$ [$ d* x1 Y* q0 y
P( A3 s+ a9 e' P! e: l3. 不要忽视那些最贴近你心坎的人和物。一生中,尽可能黏恋它们。没有这些,生活将毫无意义。+ x; g. C$ X! W9 h* a
; p; ^) N. R& Q) w }* [; R% w4. 即不要生活在过去,也不要生活为未来。过好每一天,你便会过好你今生的全部。
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, x: u" _ |: T4 j% `6 i. f5. 不要轻言放弃,当你还可以给予、尝试。事情只终结于当你放弃的那一刻。- e6 V) _# N! O; W+ H% ^2 d
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6. 不要害怕承认自己不够完美。正是这根纤弱的丝线将我们绑在一起。
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7. 不要害怕遭遇危险。正是这些机遇,让我们学会勇敢。
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8. 不要轻言爱情无法寻到而关上心扉。得到爱的最快途径是给予;失去爱的最快途径是拥握太紧;而拥有爱的最好办法是给爱装上翅膀。; l, z- ~9 I% Y
0 o2 v, T, f4 ?5 l* c! [9. 不要仓促你的人生,以至于你不但全然忘记去过那里,更不知今后所望。
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9 d9 k. \, q# [7 o/ K10. 不要忘记,人类情感最需要的是欣赏、感激。5 }: a" d: h# T: H+ F f, s& o
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11. 不要害怕学习。知识是一种无重的、可以轻易携带的珍宝。
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12. 不要轻易的浪费时间,也不要口无遮掩 。两者都无可挽回。
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& O+ D h% `) z" f4 k原文:
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3 W" O4 h% _5 [Five Balls Of Life+ J% a. r; }4 ~% V$ ^+ Y, J
This was written by the CEO of Coca-Cola Brian G. Dyson.( o" }! ?/ a- i9 w" d
It was used as Georgia Tech\'s Commencement Address:: |1 x& Z2 v4 L1 U$ x% q
( Y; _6 X$ j! `3 u& j0 p5 oImagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.
% c/ f! T# Q. Q0 A; \7 UYou name them - Work - Family - Health - Friends - Spirit, and you\'re keeping all of these in the air.
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You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls -- family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered.
. Q% K, b$ L gThey will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life. How? F1 g: r) Z) F+ ~
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) o$ D& W3 ]2 T7 k% x" L5 \7 j. {. ~1. Don\'t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special./ E) r: D+ Z1 l0 I6 g& z$ X: X/ H
1 M' M6 o5 K4 f) \2 H& ?1 Q- S2. Don\'t set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you. b2 Z7 ~$ C+ ?5 R
* d# f6 O0 h( _! a3. Don\'t take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.
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4. Don\'t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.
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5. Don\'t give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.3 ^: B6 V; j6 | C. ]+ g
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6. Don\'t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us together.
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7. Don\'t be afraid to encounter risks It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.- ?1 I7 ~$ ^$ g, m U# Y8 G9 p
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8. Don\'t shut love out of your life by saying it\'s impossible to find. The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.) y, i# \5 n7 t: x8 N5 F
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9. Don\'t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you\'ve been, but also where you are going.- L6 `3 w1 T6 w7 x: t& a
9 n) H/ ~. z7 H10. Don\'t forget that a person\'s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.9 P' U2 A& L( K) \, S* e$ Y1 g
; Y; d1 [1 |' Y# o4 v9 o: T, r11. Don\'t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.
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12. Don\'t use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved.: C2 L8 j8 c" O7 r: Y$ a1 t, Q
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